At the young age of just 18 I must have angered the gods. I was young, had just finished school and started university. I was naive, full of dreams and my aspirations for the future were limitless. In short I was ten foot tall and bullet proof. Then I made a horrible mistake. I said these ever-fateful words to a close family friend when he showed concern about me. "I am 18 years old, I am in perfect health. I exercise regularly and eat well. What could possibly go wrong?" Well, the gods didn't like it so one week later I had my first (of many) trips to the hospital.
I hear you ask, “Why did you need to go to hospital?” Well, it actually has nothing to do with a movement disorder, but I will get to that. I had a kidney stone. The first of three I had that year. I was diagnosed with a condition known as cystinuria, which means I have to battle kidney stones regularly. Sometimes I won, mostly I lost.
In the year 2000 things got worse when I was diagnosed with a condition known as Chronic Inflammatory Demyelinating Polyneuropathy. Wow, try saying that ten times in a row quickly. I will simply refer to it as CIDP. It was a very stressful time. It took an eternity to diagnose, and once diagnosed nobody knew what caused it although I have a few theories.
The kidney stones were still a big problem for me, and on top of that I now had CIDP a peripheral nerve disorder which left me with weakness and slowness in my arms and legs. At the time I was trying to lead a normal life, I was not accepting of my conditions and as a result I was bitter and resentful of the ailments I had been given.
Two years later it would get even worse when I was diagnosed with essential tremor (ET). Truth be known I had actually had the tremor for since I was about 15, but it had never really bothered me. I was always able to do the things I wanted to with the minimum of fuss, but that was now changing. I found it difficult to eat, drink and write. I felt this and the CIDP the worst because it was in your face 24/7. It could not be ignored, no matter how hard I tried.
Although other things in my life were going OK, medically, I was about to embark on five years of hell. I tried a variety of treatments for CIDP and ET with limited or no success. In 2006 I had complications from kidney surgery. I was laid up in hospital for 3 weeks and over three months I had seven operations. It was the worst time of my life, but also it was turning point for me.
When it was all over I started seeing a psychologist who diagnosed me with depression, probably caused by all I had been through. I realized that I could no longer refuse to accept my conditions, and instead I decided to take charge. I learnt about the conditions and treatment options and where applicable I changed doctors or even found some new ones. For example I now consult with two neurologists and two urologists, not one. I also changed my nephrologist (Kidney specialist) completely.
I also took time to work on my mental health and let myself know that what I had really did suck and it wasn’t fair. The validation of that point has really been a godsend for me. Now, I no longer live in denial about it all. I am not cured of my problems, but now I am accepting of my limitations and I am much more in control of my conditions. Recently I just had DBS to help with the tremor which has been great, but I know there is still a long way to go. I have blogged about my experiences as well. They are at shakesandstones.blogspot.com. Thank you all for taking the time to read, take care and stay wellJ 
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